Beyond the Olympic Spotlight: EJ Obiena, A Life of Total Discipline
As the lights of Paris begin to dim, EJ Obiena is a name that continues to shine brightly in Philippine sports. But behind the 28-year-old pole vaulter’s achievements, there’s a remarkable story of hard work, discipline, and sacrifices that many don’t know.
The Unseen Sacrifices
Chasing the Olympic dream is no easy feat, and EJ’s life is proof of that. During a recent interview, he talked about the tough reality of being a pole vaulter: “To recommend the lifestyle that I’m doing, it’s tough. It’s not something you should just half-heartedly decide on,” he said. His words show just how much commitment and effort it takes to reach the top.
EJ’s coach and good friend, Jim Lafferty, also shared stories about his strict lifestyle. From avoiding simple treats like French fries to not eating bread for three years, EJ’s life is all about self-control. Last Christmas Day, when most people were relaxing, EJ put himself in the gym, working harder to stay ahead of his competitors.
Lafferty recalls when EJ turned to him and asked, “I wonder what Mondo [Duplantis] is doing right now.” Assuming that Mondo was enjoying the holidays with his family, EJ saw it as an opportunity to outwork the Swede. And by 10 o’clock in the morning, they had opened the gym and were working out on Christmas Day. For EJ, this was his chance to do more and push himself beyond his limits.
The Weight of Humility
Despite his achievements, EJ Obiena remains grounded, often downplaying the struggles he endures. Lafferty noted that EJ doesn’t talk much about his hardships, choosing instead to shoulder the burden quietly. When faced with injuries or setbacks, his first reaction is to apologize, feeling as though he has let down the people who support him. This humility, while admirable, also highlights the heavy emotional toll that comes with striving for greatness.
EJ’s hesitation to fully recommend his path to others speaks volumes about the reality of his journey: “This life of ours is beautiful. It can be brutal,” he said, capturing the duality of an athlete’s existence. The beauty of standing on the Olympic stage comes with the brutality of the sacrifices made to get there—a reality that EJ faces every day.
The Real Price of a Dream
For many, the Olympic dream is a symbol of success. But for those who pursue it, like EJ Obiena, it comes with challenges that aren’t always visible. EJ’s story isn’t just about winning medals; it’s about hard work, discipline, and never giving up, even when things get tough.
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This journey of EJ Obiena we have been fortunate to witness serves as a powerful reminder. That going after our dreams isn’t just about the glory at the end of the road. It’s about the discipline and humility it takes to keep going, even when that road is long and difficult. It has to be a sustained effort. You have to want it, and give it all you’ve got.
His life shows us the real price of chasing a dream, and the strength it takes to balance that dream with reality.
